‘If you’re in need, don’t be shy to go to a food bank’
I spent a few hours this week at a food bank in North Guildford. It is one of a number of food banks I have visited over the last three years while working as a reporter for the Big Issue and, almost every time, I’ve felt overwhelmed by the welcoming atmosphere and kindness of the volunteers.
One man has been coming to the food bank every week for four years – and in that time, he’s only ever needed two food parcels. He just comes for a cup of tea and a chat with the volunteers. And an elderly woman comes regularly too for a cuppa and to give a donation. It’s more than just a food bank. It’s a community.
Paula, a mother of six and grandmother, told me how vital it has been to her over the last few years. “Something happened in my life and it limited me with everything I could do with my children and feeding was one of them, and with the cost of living going up and that, I was struggling to do my council tax and my bills.”
“It was leaving me literally with nothing. I was missing dinners myself and limiting what I have for myself so I could give it to my children,” she says.
Her six-year-old granddaughter is with her, and dashes around the church hall looking for chocolate biscuits, which are laid out on the tables.
“If you’re in need, don’t be shy or embarrassed to go to a food bank. You’re always welcome,” Paula adds. She says she felt “nervous” and “a little bit ashamed” when she first needed help from the food bank, but adds: “Everyone’s so friendly, and I wouldn’t do without them. You’re more than welcome.”
You usually need a referral to get help from a food bank – Citizens Advice explains how to get one here.