Kelly’s little boy had to sleep on a mattress on the floor because she could not afford to buy him a bed. He climbed in alongside her when he couldn’t sleep but she was breastfeeding her baby, so they all had a disturbed night. Exhaustion followed.
“I would sleep on the sofa just so the boys could get that little bit of extra sleep and bring the baby next to me in the living room. Sleeping on the sofa wasn’t good for my back,” she says, “but if it meant everyone getting a bit of extra sleep, then so be it.”
Kelly and her three children live together in a one-bedroom flat in Birmingham. “I make sacrifices all the time,” she says. “I probably only eat every two days so my children can be fed.”
Research from children’s charity Barnardo’s has found that families in crisis are having to prioritise basics like food, heating and electricity over replacing mouldy bedding or fixing a broken bed.
Kelly’s kids’ school connected her to a scheme which provides beds and bedding. “I got all emotional,” she says. “There’s no way I would have been able to afford that. Being a single mom of three kids, money’s really tight. I was overwhelmed. I’m so grateful.”
Kelly is keen to speak out to encourage others to ask for help if they need it. “I accept the help nowadays,” she says. “I don’t suffer in silence.”
Read Kelly’s story here and read to the end of the newsletter for advice on getting help.